Spent the last 2-3 days catching up on grey's anatomy season 4.
I'm actually starting to get a bit tired of all the drama.
That's just too much drama for one girl to carry.
Love and sex aside, another recurring theme( aiseh, this is what english class in AUSMAT thought me) is the strange and twisted friendship that Meredith and Christina seem to have.
They always have each others' backs, they give each other the license to sin, they manipulate and make use each other ( Christina does this) and yet they form this exclusive relationship in which they term friendship.
Friendship is a strange strange thing.
It can be so hard and yet so easy with the right people.
Maybe most good friends have the Christina-Meredith friendship. It's just that they're not so upfront above it.
In one episode, Izzie says to Christina, ' why is it only okay when Meredith does it?
And to that I think the answer would be because she is Meredith.
Is true friendship giving the person the liberty to do whatever they want or just trying your hardest to stop the person from making what would seem like the biggest mistake ever?
I guess it's a bit of both.
Trying to stop the person but yet still stepping back and allowing the person to do whatever he or she decides.
And yet, still coming back in when the person has been hurt by that wrong decision.
And not saying I told you so ( okay maybe saying it once or twice but not too many times).
Because we, as human beings never know when that wrong decision could turn out right for that person.
True friendship is tough.
Sad that boy-girl relationship has always been overglamourised compared to good ol' friendship.
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